Feeling the Time Crunch

My "inner voice" has been calling to me..... read....read....read. Seems to hit around this time every year when I dream of my shady porch swing, a big tall lemondade, and time to read a good book. With a full time job, 3 kids and a busy husband it sure can be hard to find some "me" time. I have a stack of books just waiting for me to dive in...... but seems like the only time I can get is at 10 O'clock at night and after 3 minutes I cannot keep my eyes open. How do we make time for ourselves??